I give a list of the books in chronological here. I tell you what books to read and what you can skip.
I know it can be a daunting task to get into the books. I can only imagine how hard it would be if I wasn’t on board the EU train since the relaunch of books and comics in the 90s. I’d advise against reading the books in chronological order. You would get very board as you went from one era to the next I’d just mix and match from my list and read a book or series in what ever era you are in the mood for. I do recommend that you save the NJO and beyond eras until you’ve read most if not all the books in the New Republic era.
Here are some books and series that are a good place to start.
Single book novels
Shadows of the Empire
Darth Maul : Shadow Hunter
Cloak of Deception
Shatterpoint
Splinter of the Mind’s Eye
Courtship of Princess Leia
Tatoonie Ghost
Any of the Tales of anthologies
Star Wars book series
The Thrawn Trilogy
Han Solo Trilogy
X-wing Series
Republic Commando
Darth Bane Book 1&2
I’d also add that if you want to save money see what you can find at Half Price Books. I don’t buy the books as soon as they come out anymore. I’ve found if I wait for the hardbacks to turn up at Half price books I can save tons of money. I’m pretty certain you can find a wide selection of the older novels at HPB. Heck, you might even find some of the harder books to find.
I hope that helps you Dawn.