Indeed. Which is why the whole “Luke marries Mara Jade” in the EU doesn’t sit well with me. Luke Skywalker CANNOT, EVER, get the (a) girl. In fact, my view has always been (although my recent “discovery” of the fantastic “Legacy” series in the comics makes me rather glad that they didn’t go in this direction) that Luke should NOT have been successful in restoring the Jedi knights to prominence. I always thought it’d be more interesting to have his efforts fail in a galaxy that had been torn apart by force wielders and have Luke die as the last of the Jedi, somewhat disillusioned and perhaps even dangerously close to the dark side because of that disillusionment.
Perhaps there is too much darkness and anger in me, though. Much like my father…