Yeah, I got nothin’…
Oh wait, I do. I got it right here…
It’s all in the game, yo. :rolleyes:
Just do the big rock & roll concert song ending and have everyone do a wind-down jam. What are those called?
is single 
Aww, crap.
On the plus side, IS SINGLE!
No, I dont want to be single I love him, and I’m just in pieces right now.
Gods, I’ve been there so many times.
Just pick up and move on. Don’t look back. 99.99% of the time, that’s what he’d want (weird to switch genders around, but I think it still applies) on the OUTSIDE chance he realizes he fraked up, he’ll make his case.
It’s not a matter of your love for him being substandard, it’s a matter of his. Best thing you can do is keep on keeping on.
Feel free to PM me, BTW.
I’m sorry TNM If you have the urge to share, vent, rant or otherwise, same offer goes for me. My PM box is yours. Take care
Virtual hug - Saying things will get better soon is so cliched, but other words fail me right now. Having been where you are at the worst part are the time that you see something that you want to mention to the other person, and then you realize they aren’t around.
Actually it doesn’t get better soon, but it will get better and we’re all here for you. and one thing you might want to try is to do something different, go someplace you haven’t been, attend a meetup or try some activity where there are other people. A new experience uses your brain more and will help with some of the pain.
Pike is a wise man, TNM. Listen to him. Although it doesn’t minimize your pain, for which you have my sincerest condolences. Hang in there.
Today sucks becuase…
I’m on duty and stuck on the ship until 8am ish tommorow morning and wont be home until almost 9 am.
At least i have SGU waiting for me when I get back to the apartment.
Aww darlin’ I’m sorry.
It takes time…there’s no other cure. But it will get better. Take it from someone else who has gone through love and loss in the last few months.
gaf.
Thanks all for the happy thoughts, it still sucks, but I think I’m through the feeling sorry for myself/hanging around in my night clothes.
I’m kinda angry/sad right now.
Enjoying this cold snap, now, neighbor? It’s May 9, and it feels like March 9!
You know what was NOT teh suck? Armando’s concert last week. It was awesome.
Oh noes! Other than following Pike’s wise advice, I think you should try out some time honored techniques of self-nurturing:
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[li]Watch a good horror or ultraviolent movie. and indulge your bloodthirsty side. I recomend The Shining or Reservoir Dogs.
[/li][li]Eat a pint of Ben and Jerry’s. Or a small tub of Nutella. Straight from the carton.
[/li][li]Exercise. Make yourself feel the burn. Give yourself a different kind of heartache–one that will make you healthier.
[/li][li]Pamper yourself. Take a hot bath. Paint your nails (or your toenails if you don’t want anyone to see). Buy yourself a small present.
[/li][li]Remember that even if you love him, anyone who breaks your heart is also a douche-nozzle.
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This too shall pass, and all that. I know it sucks and you have to let yourself be sad, but some time in the future, you’ll be happy. Some time in the future, you’ll be in love again.
Well, in the next three weeks, I have one day off.
I’ll be doing my regular work Monday-Friday. Then I have Saturday off before travelling to Fort Polk on Sunday. May 17-23, I’ll be supporting my program’s software for part of a training rotation. I fly back Monday, May 24, then will be back at my desk Tuesday-Friday.
Sure, the travel days will only sort of be work, but close enough.
And the hell of it is, compared to the last three weeks, site support will almost seem like a vacation.
I watched “The Human Caterpillar” it is not a good film.
Eating Ice Cream sounds great, but sadly my genes will keep that ice cream
I dont wanna exercise!
I’m going to the spa at the weekend. WOO!
I love him, and will still take him back if he asks I’m such a bloody push-over.
Enjoying this cold snap, now, neighbor? It’s May 9, and it feels like March 9!
Actually, yes. Yes I am. 
You know what was NOT teh suck? Armando’s concert last week. It was awesome.
Yes. Yes it was. And it was teh ossim to see you there. Sadly, I didn’t write any of the pieces on that program (although maybe that’s why it was teh ossim).
I am so sorry TNM. It’s probably one of the hardest things to do is to recover from a heartbreak like this. Surround yourself with people that love and care about you. Cry if you have to cry. Find someone you trust that you can talk to. It will take time to heal but eventually things will get better. My thoughts are with you. hugs
I have a student whose life has apparently imploded and will, therefore, fail a number of his courses, be unable to graduate next week and have to forfeit his graduate assistantship for next year. I feel very guilty, but he failed to turn in work on time and I cannot give him special treatment when everyone else in class turned in all of their work AND attended class more than two weeks out of the entire semester. I have to make the right choice, but I still feel bad for what it means for this kid’s life.
So far this week:
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[li]My mobile phone died
[/li][li]My son has been concussed by my other son’s birthday present :eek:
[/li][li]My 12 week project is officially 2.5 weeks behind at week 6
[/li][li]My whole family is sick inviting a number of fascinating clean-up jobs I’ll have nightmares about for a while
[/li][li]I wasted 4 hours because IT makes us change our password every 6 weeks and I didn’t realize that Apache expects user names to be in lower case when I’m supposed to be the project expert
[/li][li]On the way home we had to swerve to miss two drunken idiots standing in the middle of the road and one of them threw a bottle at the car cracking the windshield and denting my roof :mad::mad::mad:
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Seriously, can we cancel this week and start again? Any time from about last Thursday on should be sufficient
P.S. The idiot who threw bottle was rounded up by the cops before I’d finished making my statement somewhat restoring my faith in the police system.