I know virtually nothing about running. Or, as my dad used to say, you can write everything I know about running on the inside of a matchbook with a grease pencil. Here’s pretty much the sum of what I know: It’s a bitch to run when overweight because, well, stuff moves around. Imagine what it’d be like as a woman with double-Ds running sans bra. Well, they don’t make belly bras. Or moob bras. (Wow, maybe they do, and that’s scary.) The first time I tried running I thought my gut was going to tear off. And my back hurt. And I felt sharp knee pain after a short distance.
My trainer addressed the knee problem with a whole long series (like ~6 months if I remember correctly) of exercises that trained me to turn my feet straight when walking/running. This plus weight loss eventually alleviated the knee pain, but remember that this is very specific to me. Your issues will be your own, but a good trainer can identify them and help you through it. Sometimes just pushing harder isn’t necessarily the answer.
That said, I see a lot of posts here from Wolverines saying “I fell off the wagon” or “I missed a bunch of workouts” or whatever. Wow, THIS is something I do understand. This happens to me, too, and I think pretty much everyone. I have a couple of short thoughts about it, but FYI I’m working on a podcast series with the professional who has helped me through my fitness journey (and still does) to present some of these ideas along with some real, pro advice. All I can really do is share and relate, but he brings a LOT more information. We’re hoping to launch this before the meetup, and when the schedule comes out (later today, assuming I get off the forum and get my classwork done!) you’ll note that I’m hosting a Saturday Wolverines discussion schedule with him which you can attend to meet him and talk Wolverine fitness roundtable-style.
Anyway, short thoughts for today (much longer/organized) in the podcast when it comes out:
One of the big keys to making big fitness changes, in my experience, is accepting that it’s a long-term good. You receive the benefits in microscopic, almost imperceptible chunks on a daily basis. Every so often you’ll look back and go “holy crap!” but most of the time you won’t feel daily or even weekly differences. Because of this, I find that I get better results by approaching each day as if it’s the first – like every day I try to think, “Hey, I can make things a tiny, tiny bit better today.” And doing such eventually brings satisfaction. It’s sorta like developing a taste for the journey instead of just the destination.
This is what you were talking about at the end of your post, I think, SB, daling with situations where working out itself becomes an obstacle to working out. (I get this, too, BTW, even now. Like I’ll get all wound up about making the scheduled time that I put on my calendar for a gym trip to the point where I psyche myself out and don’t go. Or I put together a workout, then donk out of it because I can’t make it all the way through.) I’ve been working hard at telling myself that I’ll do SOMETHING and make the best of what I have regardless. So if I’m late and won’t get the full workout, I do what I can, even if it’s only just a little. If I have legs on the schedule and they hurt and I just can’t do the exercises, I do chest or arms or shoulders instead. If I just can’t make myself do cardio, I figure out a circuit. You get the idea.
I know that when I manage to do this for even a week or two, the gym starts to feel like a haven instead of a job. It’s a happy place where I go to make myself better (more capable and more like my Matrix residual self image), listen to music/podcasts, watch movies and TV, release frustration in a positive way, and so on. Dealing with intrusions to gym time or exercise issues becomes a lot easier and more natural.
Hope this helps, and sorry it’s not more detailed. Like I said, I’m working to get some of these experiences (and some really good advice from someone who knows what they’re doing instead of me) into a podcast-consumable form which I hope you’ll enjoy.