Fitness for me is not about weight. Sure, my personal ideal of my body is a little slimmer, but that’s not the point. The point is that it’s stronger and faster. And I’m making great progress, especially in the last 2 months.
But tonight I have comments on weight. Since the meetup, when many of you actually saw me in person, I’ve lost 16 pounds. It’s the extra hour of cardio each week plus effective strength training.
This weekend I am going to my college reunion, which ends with a parade through campus of all the attendees, from class of 1936 to class of 2006. We all wear white and accessorize with our class colors. I realized this morning that the only even-sort-of white thing I have to wear from the waist down is the skirt I wore for graduation. So I dug it out of the back of my closet and tried it on–it fits and looks nice! That means that I am approximately the same size and weight now that I was when I graduated. I can live with that.
The reason that I try really hard not to focus on weight as the best indicator of my physical fitness is that the skinniest I’ve ever been was also the unhealthiest, in both body and mind. I don’t want to identify that particular weight or size as my ideal self because everything that went with it and contributed to who I was at that point was really kind of awful.
So maybe I’m actually thinking more about goal setting than questions of weight and weight loss. How do y’all determine your benchmarks and success measures in ways that reflect more than just one number or metric? How do you set goals that you can pursue in a way that makes you feel good and contributes to your overall health?
I’m getting a little introspective on this topic because I realized over the weekend that I have very nearly met the initial goal I set for myself when I started working with a trainer: get back into as good a shape as I was in before injuring myself. I’m there. But I am really enjoying working with someone who can constantly challenge me to try something new/different/harder. So I am trying to determine what’s next–what am I working toward?
Whatever ideas you have, please share!