(I bolded specific parts of your post to show my reasoning)
It sounds to me like you squarely fit in that first group.
A poor choice of words perhaps. Something about what he said still rubbed me the wrong way. Star Wars is great because it can be enjoyed by all ages, it doesn’t have to be “aimed” at anyone. Yes, I did see it when I was young, so that makes me an old school fan, but I was 13 when Episode I came out and somewhat disappointed by that movie, and it wasn’t because I was out of the target demographic. sigh
Ok, bottom line, I love the original Star Wars and many of the games and novels around it. Lets keep that going.