When I say “not interesting” it’s not necessarily bad… from a certain point of view. My best friend in the whole WORLD who I’ve known for thirty years is not an interesting guy, but we talk almost every day and hang out every week. We go camping, cut down trees, chase our dogs around the yard, go swimming, go to concerts, watch movies, play pool, throw darts, go fishing, B.S. about life in general… but there’s no one thing he knows or does in-depth that makes him interesting to ME.
He’s not a geek about anything, but that ABSOLUTELY doesn’t mean I snub him, nor does that mean that he doesn’t have to listen to me geek out about my favorite things. He believes very strongly in geek tolerance.
That’s why he’s my very bestest friend.
Sorry if I gave anyone the impression that I was looking down my nose at them, I didn’t intend to. I’m just saying that I couldn’t sit in a bar and talk about one thing for one or two hours straight with him. He doesn’t have the depth of knowledge for that, and being able to discuss things in great detail with passion and understanding is what I call interesting to me.
So why do I hang around with him so much if I don’t find him interesting? Well, not everyone needs to be interesting all the time. I find him to be a HECK of a stand-up guy with a great sense of humor. And I think that we need people like that in our lives more than we need geeks.
Hopefully I haven’t explained that to death but I don’t want anyone to think I’m being a snob.