I hate to sound like a broken record but…
Thanks Ferris, I was actually emotionally involved in your segment. Did you read that from your written pages or are you really that knowledgeable and mentally organized? The way you exposed John Hughes’ mind gave me even MORE respect for him, and makes me miss him even more than I already do.
There was a documentary about John Hughes, his work, and his work’s impact on modern culture on Instant Watch a few months ago, Don’t You Forget About Me. I know we all have an inordinate amount of media to partake in around here but if you’re as passionate about these movies as I am do yourself a favor and see this flick. The movie may seem sad at times but I found it very fulfilling. I told everyone I care about as much as I could remember of it for a solid week afterward.
Anyway, your segment beat the pants off that documentary and I’ll begin watching for your work.
To the GWC Three: To hear you discuss The Breakfast Club the way you did was one of the most insightful bits of banter I’ve ever been a part of. Not that I really was a part of it, but you guys always make me feel like I’m part of the podcast, and ESPECIALLY in this one… I’ve heard and been a part of a few anaysisisisisisis-eez of John Hughes and his movies, especially The Breakfast Club, and yours blows them all out of the water in my book.
Chuck’s insight into why Dick Vernon shouldn’t put John down the way he did was mind blowing to me, I NEVER would have considered that. Your additional explanation of why teachers have it so hard right now, having had their disciplinary options all but removed, is something I KNEW, but never really grasped the full impact of. Thanks for making me think.
Shawn’s honesty in sharing about himself in those years was profound. Kudos to you, dude, you’re a bigger man than I.
Was it really like this? I can answer unequivocally YES. And WORSE, sometimes with disastrous consequences.
We ABSOLUTELY drew social lines that were never crossed, (but for a very few exceptional individuals) we consiously took part in and furthered the stereotypes we thought we were supposed to be a part of. The closest thing I can liken it to is a prison yard. My graduating class was 200+, to give you an idea of where I’m coming from, and you knew who you were, you knew who your friends were, and you DIDN’T forget it. EVER.
The shameful thing is that these people that we didn’t like and that didn’t like us all also saw this movie and were just as touched by it, but that dialog never got started the way it should have. Powerful, POWERFUL movie, man. HUGE.
For me anyway.
My friends and I were John Bender. From the hair to the boots, from the crappy attitude to the thermal underwear shirt-under-tee shirt-under-flannel shirt-under-jacket-under-coat. One guy actually had Bender’s problems and we all stuck together with him like, like… like something that really sticks together a LOT! His problems were our problems, and vice versa.
Adults didn’t take us seriously, didn’t want to hear what we had to say unless it was “yes sir”, or “look, I got an A+” (yeah right, like THAT ever happened) so we were each other’s family for those four years. At the time I thought John Hughes was the only person that understood this adult-teenager dynamic, that he was the only person that understood it and was also the only person that truly believed that if the adults left us alone for a few years and stopped yelling, stopped trying to make us into them, stopped trying to manipulate us, and stopped being jealous of our youth, that we would get through these years fine. We could make good decisions (or at least not make the really horrible decisions), and become good, decent human beings. Not criminals, not degenerates, not drug dealers, not failures, not whatever they were so sure we were headed for that they needed to be the way they were.
Now, as a 35 year old with an AWESOME 16 year old at home who just started his junior year last week, I have the persective of this movie under my belt and it has been a golden tool in recent years. I’ve learned patience beyond anything I thought I was capable of, I’ve learned to let him be his own person. I TALK to him, I don’t dictate, and when we disagree about something I help him see the other MANY sides of a situation, and never say “this is how it’s going to be”, or “because I said so”.
I absolutely must stop now but will say yeah, this movie and John Hughes were and still are huge for me, and, whether he knows it or not, this movie and John Hughes are huge for my son.
Thanks again guys, I feel very fortunate to be a part of your little corner of the galaxy.